March 11, 2010 | Posted by Debbie Devine
My clients enjoy my luxurious, discreet counseling atmosphere in a beautiful cottage surrounded by trees and birds. Unlike the average therapist who answers to insurance companies regarding your care, I have a specialized, fee-only practice for the discriminating adult who is looking for the highest standards in confidentiality (no insurance accepted) and expertise. I am an experienced, senior [...]
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June 28, 2010 | Posted by Debbie Devine
If this post reaches even one victim, it’s worth the posting….
Warning Signs of an Abusive Partner
Project for Victims of Family Violence, Lafayette, ARK
1. Push for quick involvement: comes on very strong, pressures for an exclusive commitment almost immediately.
2. Jealousy: Excessively possessive: calls constantly, visits unexpectedly; prevents you from going to work because “you might meet [...]
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January 27, 2010 | Posted by Debbie Devine
I wait and watch for inspiration for these messages to you, and I found it this month in a song: John Mayer’s “Say What You Need to Say”
“Even if your hands are shaking
And your faith is broken
Even if your eyes are closing
Say it with your heart wide open
Say what you need to say.”
So much of [...]
Categories: Communication | Tags: a RIGHT to ask for what you want, After you say what you need to say, ask respectfully, benefit of therapy, clearly and directly, criticize or otherwise counsel others, Do you need a different job where you are respected, don’t hint, Finding your voice, get in trouble when we expect others to “just know” or read our minds, guys don’t get all the hints and signals that your girlfriends do, manipulate or guilt-trip others, NOT a license to judge, Not using sarcasm or anger, playing games, Say what you need to say, Speak honestly, speaking up firmly and courteously about what you will or will not tolerate, state your needs respectfully, take responsibility for what comes next, what is required in order for you to stay in the relationship or on the job, It is not OK for you to tell other people how to live their lives, treat you with respect | No Comments »
